Friday, January 29, 2010
WOW. It's been a while. A long while. But I promise there are good reasons for the hiatus. Not necessarily pleasant reasons, but definitely good ones.

This is the reason I've been MIA:

The Bebe. Isn't he adorbz? He's 5 months old now (I know), and once again I hated being pregnant. I spewed constantly the whole time. Again. Which left no time for blogging. Or basically, you know, living. But I had an awesome birth with him, in water at home (which is a post for another time. Don't want to overwhelm you, lol).

But anyway. I was thinking I wanted a place to blog about all the mumdane (haha geddit?!) things happening in my life. And I remembered about my little old corner over here. I was going to delete it, but I liked reading back through my posts. So I'll give this a go again I think.

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Monday, November 10, 2008

WAWT 101108 by Audrey Lumiere

We had a busy day today, off to visit the surgeon about my ears, doing the grocery shopping and other miscellaneous errands. Faced with such mundane tasks, I needed to introduce a bit of whimsy into my day.

I settled on my tutu-style skirt, favourite men's tee (mine actually has a deer on it), leggings and my favourite chunky heels. Unfortunately I forgot to accessorise today, which is very unlike me. I ringed my eyes with a gorgeous purple liner that matches the purple in my hair perfectly, as the colour has faded a bit. I need to redo it, but I'm waiting to hear about a job I have applied for, if I have an interview I'll need to get rid of the purple (very corporate role, and very much in the public view, very unlike my last few!).

The day started off well with the visit to the surgeon. Happily my condition has stablised, and my hearing is not any worse, so no need for surgery, and I've evaded the dreaded hearing aid once more. Foiled yet again - mwwaaahhhh haaahh haaah (that was evil laughter in case you were wondering :) ).

I love doing the grocery shopping in a pair of heels, pushing the trolley around, with The Small Boy hanging off the front. Found lots of extra low sodium foods today, so it was a very good shop! Plus a lady complimented The Small Boy's lovely manners as well, it was true, he was very well behaved (until we got home). He is obsessed with Boost Smoothies, so I had bribed him with one of those, maybe that helped.

Then later we went off to sit in the sunshine on the oval watching The Man play cricket. Corporate cricket competition kicked off again today, because of daylight savings.

Tomorrow I am back to work, working extra days for the next few weeks as it is getting to the end of the school year and we have deadlines to meet. Hope I make it!! Fingers crossed.

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Sunday, November 2, 2008



Tonight was a friend's birthday.

Another friend, let's call her...Alice (since that is her name...) came over to get ready. We drank some sparkles whilst getting ready, hung out and read magazines until the appointed hour. We also tried to cover this annoying pimple I have on my nose, grr, I never had them when I was a teenager, double grr. But anyway.

So we went to dinner, there was about 20 of us. It was lovely! Lovely meal, lovely company, lovely glasses of proper champagne (not sparkles, yum).

Then. Outside having a cheeky cigarette (I don't smoke, for those of you playing at home...). Thought 'gee I haven't seen Alice for a while'.

Oh dear. Alice is also outside. Throwing up. Spewing her guts up actually, if I dare be so callous. There was a large group of us, but of course I felt responsible. Of course. Seriously, I am totally the friend you want to have in a crisis. Sigh.

Anyway, can't get a cab for life nor money (heelllooo - vomity girl no go in my cab...) so I rang My Mum. To rouse herself from her warm bed and drive 30 minutes to pick us up. She came. She even stopped for spew breaks on the way home. She dropped us off (The Man got up and helped us inside, since walking was not really happening), and then drove home. Nary a whimper, or even a cross word. Wow. I love My Mum. Meffing hell, if The Small Boy tried that one in the future, I can't say I'd behave with such good grace.

So anyway, Alice is in our spare room, bucket beside her. Being utilised. Ergh.

And I'm out here, thinking how much I love My Mum.


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Thursday, October 30, 2008
photo courtesy of Sean Fennessy


I have a rash on my finger from wearing my wedding rings.

I wear my engagement ring, my wedding ring (above, doesn't show the rock detail) and The Man's Grandmother's wedding ring. His Parents gave it to me after the wedding, as a welcome to the family officially present. The Man and His Brother have no sisters, and His Brother is gay, so I'll most likely be the only daughter-ish figure they'll get. I was so honoured when they gave it to me.

Anyway, I never had the rash with my enagement ring. It's only been since we got married, and I started wearing the other rings. I can't wear them at the moment, not until it clears up. It has already been a week and it doesn't look like going away.

Sigh.

On the plus side, men are flirting with me again, I never realised they were so observant.


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Wednesday, October 22, 2008


It was quite chilly here today, so I had to break out the thermals again.

Black tank, layered over white thermal, and snuggly blue cardy. Jeans, and my trusty converse. Bird necklace, as always. No rings today, gross rash on my finger. Perhaps I am allergic to being married?!

Very boring, as it was a student free day, so I just bummed around, pretending to work. Had just left a meeting when Daycare phoned to ask me to pick up The Small Boy - he was behaving oddly. Turns out to be an ear infection (of course *sigh*) and the day before a Public Holiday. Off we trotted to the Dr to get some antibiotics.

And then lay on the couch watching Nick Jr for the rest of the afternoon. Quite lovely really :)

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Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Necklace I am coveting, from Tilly Bloom
Books and reading are some of my favourite things.

I could read all day if possible. Pre-TSB, I used to do that. Whole days spent laying indulgently in bed, reading voraciously. Devouring word after word.

These days, I still manage to find time to read. Sometimes this is online, where I'll spend vast and unspecified (because I may incriminate myself) amounts of time perusing blogs and forums, just reading, not often commenting or replying. Not totally sure why, as I am very opinionated in real life, but I think it is because the time I spend typing responses could be better spent reading something new.

But I do find time each day to read the printed word too. Nothing compares to bound pages of magical letters creating words and worlds. The pleasure I derive from holding a book is immense. I don't understand people who say they don't have time to read. I shake my head at them, and furrow my brow, wrinkle my nose whilst thinking that housework can't be more important than reading.

I'll read trash. I'll read literature. I'll read textbooks for fun, and brochures, and street signs. I'll read a story that affects me profoundly, and follow it up with a fashion magazine.

I'm the first to admit I'm a Word Whore. And I'm cool with that.

The most obvious sign of my commitment to words is The Small Boy. He reads. Constantly. Ok, so he can't actually read, but he is often found sitting with a book, doing his own version of reading. Story books, picture books, magazines, novels, he's not fussy either.

Children learn by example, and this is an example I am so proud my son is learning from me.

I remember times spent in other worlds, through the medium of books, growing up and I can only hope for and encourage The Small Boy to experience this also.

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Monday, October 20, 2008

I am a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a mentor, and now a wife.
I like having choices, but hate making decisions.
I like spending time alone.
I crave social contact.
I am one great big contradiction.
I think curvy and voluptous is much sexier than skinny bones.
One day I will travel to New York.
I can't read maps very well.
I am right. Always.
I can never get the change in my wallet promptly.
I live for lazy Sundays with the paper and eggs benedict.
I worry that I give too much unwanted advice, particularly when drunk.
I love painting my toe nails.
I love the rain.
My female friends are such strong and beautiful women.
I have no time for men who are frightened by strong women.
I turn the music up loud and dance around when vaccuuming.
I hate housework, but mopping is ok.
I harbour dreams of becoming a politician.
I am forgetful.
I love burlesque, and dream of performing.
I can always see both sides of an argument.
I believe that most people have no idea what is happening for disengaged and marginalised youth.
I don't often show how much I care.
Before having The Small Boy, I was all for disposable nappies, staying at home, and pain relief during labour. Now I'm all about cloth nappies, extended breastfeeding, home waterbirths, and I feel absolutely no guilt about working.
I appear outgoing and confident, but really I'm just very skilled at acting.
I will defend to the death your right to choose, even if I disagree with your choice.
I would love to wear heels, seamed stockings and pencil skirts every day, but in reality am much more comfortable in my jeans and new red converse.
I have mortal fear of getting sunburnt.
I love winter, and warm and snuggly sundays.
I must have something to look forward to.
I very rarely complete anythi....

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